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đď¸3 Biggest Dating Mistakes You're Making
Dating coach Jillian Turecki on breaking unhealthy cycles and making better choices in love. Plus, my 30-day breakup detox, why we trust the wrong people and more
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â3 Biggest Dating Mistakes Youâre Making (Stop Chasing Love Thatâs Not for You)â
On Mondayâs episode of my podcast, I sat down with relationship coach, teacher, and podcast host Jillian Turecki, to talk about relationship advice, dating mistakes and her new book, It Begins with You: The 9 Hard Truths About Love That Will Change Your Life.

Our conversation starts with an in-depth discussion of how dating apps burn us out, how the fear of rejection prevents us from putting ourselves out there and how itâs often much better to be single than be in the wrong relationship.

Jillian describes what she calls the Attraction Paradoxâwhy weâre drawn to people who donât want us, while ignoring those who do. She breaks down the impacts of old patterns, toxic dynamics and unhealthy cycles before we get into a conversation about honesty and healing. Iâm passionate about love and relationships, too (and if you havenât read my book 8 Rules of Love, nowâs a perfect time to order it), and itâs always a joy to chat with someone like Jillian, who has so much wisdom to share. If youâre feeling stuck in your love life, this episode is for you.
â30-Day Breakup Detox to Reclaim Your Life and Rebuild Your Confidenceâ
Do you find that youâre replaying old memories? Are you weighed down by things from your last relationship? Are you just having trouble moving on?
In Fridayâs podcast episode, I introduce a powerful technique designed to help you heal and grow from the wounds of a breakup. Itâs called the 30-Day No-Contact Reinvention Challenge, and if you follow it closely, in one month, youâll be a stronger, wiser, more fulfilled person.
Itâs time to reclaim your life. Let go of the past. Erase those old patterns and replace them with a new, beautiful version of yourself. Heartbreak is one of the most painful experiences we can go through. My hope is that you can get through it on your terms with these tools.
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âWhy You Canât Trust Everyoneâ
We often think about trust in a binary wayâyouâre either trustworthy or youâre not. But itâs not so simple.
On average, each person lies four times a day. And what we find is that weâre giving away our trust too easily and ending up disappointed.
In this video, I break down the four levels of trust, and how you can build trust one step at a time to build stronger relationships. You will also learn why we trust the wrong people too quickly and how you can protect yourself so you donât get burned in the future.
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